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"...certainly like every woman worth being friends with." Yes.

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James Hillman and Michael Ventura write about this blind spot in their book "We've Had A Hundred Years of Psychotherapy--And the World's Getting Worse."

they argue (among other things) that therapy should help people become more effective citizens/activists and question their social/economic/political conditions, not just contemplate their "personal" emotions and memories.

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I am a psychologist and psychoanalyst who hates that psychology hitched their wagon to medicine and could not have said it better. Thanks for writing this great post!

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"Considering that we were four people forced to live together for 18 years as two of us worked full time and the other two were training to work full-time one day but forced to pretend that we were doing something called 'learning,' our family could have been truly terrible, it was only terrible sometimes."

Mmmhhhmmm perfect.

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Ha! What an excellent dream. I had to Google “champagne coupe” to learn what that is, tbh. What a clever and funny subconscious you have for showing you the aspirational part of entering therapy and that it’s often not that good.

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One of my favorites of your posts! 😂

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